Before You Call It a Red Flag, Reflect
Aditi had always believed she was a very disciplined person. She followed rules, respected people, and tried her best to live a life that was honest and thoughtful. Because of this, she always believed that life would naturally treat her fairly. But one phase of her life completely challenged that belief. A new responsibility came into her life — new people, new expectations, and situations she had never experienced before. At first, she tried her best to adjust. But slowly, small things started bothering her. A comment from someone. A small disagreement. A behavior that didn’t match her expectations. Her mind started asking questions again and again. "Why am I going through this?" "I have never done anything wrong." "I try to be so correct and disciplined, then why are people behaving like this with me?" The more she thought about it, the more irritated she felt. Even small incidents began occupying a big space in her mind. Sometimes she f...